February 2010
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thealvisin: I hate when people use ellipses in texts. I always get this feeling of uninterest or doubt from the person I am talking to. … i hate it too, yo! seriously. and my friends make fun of me for it. -___-
Feb 1st
January 2010
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World of 100
http://www.miniature-earth.com/me_english.htm This is one of the 3 people who have an internet connection posting this for the others to see and think about.
Jan 31st
Jan 31st
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When I have time. Which I hope is soon. I will blog about the last two re-blogs
Jan 30th
How To Communicate With Your Life: How to become... →
(via psychotherapy)
Jan 30th
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Finding The Surprising Gaps in Your Self-Knowledge →
psychotherapy: Why are people so blissfully ignorant of certain aspects of their personalities? Take an everyday example: there are some infuriating people who are always late for appointments. A few of these people explain it by saying they are ‘laid-back’, while others seem unaware that they’re always late. For laid-back people, their lateness is a part of their personality, they are aware...
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Jan 29th
Speaking of fake things...
I shouldn’t take it personally even though it really disappoints me.
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I miss you.
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Listenjules-antana: remgeeezy: Nothin on You -...
Jan 24th
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“Here’s what all of you have done: you made a sad situation joyous and...”
– Conan O’Brien (via spockjones) (via wackisay) (via panneda) (via joncasas)
Jan 24th
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Jan 22nd
thats pretty trippy
jules-antana: DO NOT CHEAT OR IT WON’T WORK AND YOU WILL WISH YOU HADNT. TAKE 3 MINUTES TRY THIS - IT WILL FREAK YOU OUT. (note from Makani)This really made my heart like jump into my throat. It is majorly creepifying. Honestly I did not even cheat, and it came out with answers I didn’t even let myself believe until now.(end note) THE PERSON WHO SENT THIS TO ME SAID HER WISH CAME TRUE 10...
Jan 22nd
Looks like I'm dancing on benches this SPCN. :]
thealvisin: Really excited for practice this Saturday! ME TOO!! :DD Yeeeee
Jan 22nd
I normally don't say or believe this...
but I really do think that sometimes things just do happen for a reason. Emerson:  btw u have to refer to me as papi remember hahaha me:  STOOPS! lol Emerson:  AHHAHA just messin me:  your name is still papi in my phone! it cracks me up when i see it so it stays Emerson:  lmao…yup we’ll always remember that moment when you and i were walkin to the SSC and our funny...
Jan 22nd
mad gab?
superxena: mvalenzuela: I am Mellow Reeve Al Len Sway Law. What’s yours? =) Brrrrr  Eye Anchor Bear Uh ? i don’t know i suck at this haha. Damn Roger should work for Mad Gab.  He came up with: Pry Aint Cub Rarer Oooh girl you so creative. Hmm…. I guess it depends on if you pronounce it either the Filipino way or the American way. haha Jaw never eye jaw knee eel burr...
Jan 22nd
Under-react to a Problem →
What a novel idea. Well I think I’ll try having a go at this.
Jan 21st
Jan 21st
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“Don’t say you don’t have enough time. You have exactly thesame...”
–  H. Jackson Brown
Jan 18th
complaint
ethelove: tired. angry. annoyed. thinking too much. too much to do. bored. sad. nonchalant. contradictions and all. mask it up tom? sure. oh girl. i freakin feel you.
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“Love is a temporary madness, it erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And...”
– Louis De Bernieres, “Corelli’s Mandolin”
Jan 13th
Race, Culture, and the "Other" Side
thealvisin: I just wrote a really long, charged post about race and culture, even needing a disclaimer, but I decided not to post it because I would rather have that discussion with people in person rather than through here, haha. It all just stemmed from ElCo site today. Even though I didn’t have any PA sessions, I did have some really good conversations regarding the above topic with Janelle...
Jan 13th
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More excerpts from "Heartbreak and Home Runs: The...
Setup For a Self-Fulfilling Prophecy Expectations about how an experience “should” feel can prime you for a lifetime of disappointment. A negative first relationship can doom people to get trapped over and over again in self-destructive relationships. The reverse effect applies also. If your first relationship is healthy and positive, you may expect new people to be similarly...
Jan 12th
"Heartbreak and Home Runs: The Power of First... →
This is definitely an article worth reading. Here are some excerpts I particularly liked: “We’re wired for attachment in a world of impermanence,” says Robert Neimeyer, a psychologist at the University of Memphis who studies how people draw meaning from loss and grief. “How we negotiate that tension shapes who we become.” ‘People struck by loss or trauma at...
Jan 12th
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Jan 12th
What the F does "OKay" mean anyway?
Today during active meeting, we asked each other how our heart and health were doing. And then when it came to my turn, I told them that the word “Okay” has ruled my life. “I’m doing okay.” “It’s okay, really, it’s okay.” “You’re going to be okay.” These are things that I either tell people or I tell myself. And it’s...
Jan 11th
Evidently I'm random
So…. on the way to retreat from westwood, I got into a mood that I get when I feel like asking questions. I’m a naturally curious person, so you’ll find me asking questions like, “Have you ever thought about how strange memory is?” or “When was your first experience with death?” And then Priscilla and Emerson were slightly taken aback and laughed at me,...
Jan 11th
Where Did the Time Go? Do Not Ask the Brain (New... →
psychotherapy: Time may march, or ebb, or sift, or creep, but in early January it feels as if it has bolted like an angry dinner guest, leaving conversations unfinished, relationships still stuck, bad habits unbroken, goals unachieved. “I think for many people, we think about our goals, and if nothing much has happened with those then suddenly it seems like it was just yesterday that we set...
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Being home for one night reminds me of how much I...
superxena: thealvisin: Is it possible to get homesick when you live only twenty to thirty minutes from home? Heck yes. Need to work harder to make them proud. shit im homesick too. me tooo. and i live twenty to thirty minutes away too! UCLA is just its own little world.
Jan 8th
“What does it say about any state that focuses more on prison uniforms than on...”
– Gov. Arnold Schwarzenneger
Jan 7th
The New York Times: Schwarzenegger Seeks Shift... →
thealvisin: “Choosing universities over prisons,” Mr. Schwarzenegger said in his final annual address to the Legislature. “This is a historic and transforming realignment of California’s priorities.” […] “Those protests on the U.C. campuses were the tipping point,” the governor’s chief of staff, Susan Kennedy, said in an interview after the speech. “Our university system is going to get the...
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